trinacriabob

What, dammit, didn't they feed you? I would have been chanting: BOOOFET...BOOOFET....BOOOFET...Ours is in mid December. We were asked if we wanted to trim down the Christmas party in lieu of bigger bonuses. The answer was: . Therefore, we are having a Christmas luncheon, without the fancy hotel ballroom and without the significant others, which added to the cost. A builder I used to work for in Seattle threw a nice Christmas party, though it was formal and uptight....they were such an uptight company and some of the management didn't particularly like me because I wasn't as uptight as they were. All of the nice people in that company transplanted to Seattle from somewhere else. The raciest thing is that this one girl from Connecticut ... very nice and fairly attractive...plants a big one smack on the lips right as I arrived for the party one year and was hanging up my coat....I was taken off guard. And, yes, I say my Hail Marys and Our Fathers for my Christmas bonus...it's LaCrosse money...that's where all my bonuses have gone....into the savings account for that purpose.

donut hole

Something tells me David Benoit, but I can't be sure...does that sound familiar?

"stage left"

Ditto...like the lyric "put them together...that's a fine looking Jew," among others. He is obnoxious, but that's what makes it funny. "Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer" - once had 6 business school grads in a rented Bonneville driving to a mutual friends' December wedding singing along to this on the radio since we had been making fun of everyone and everything we saw and were in one of those irreverent moods. Others: Considering I H-A-T-E country, Dolly Parton's "Hard Candy Christmas." Beautiful voice. Are her projectiles sagging by now? "Christmas in the Northwest" - regional song, kind of country I guess, but as the refrain says "Christmas in the Northwest...a gift God wrapped in green." Corny but quaint.

locker room

Stars Fell on A-L-A-B-A-M-A !

Yeah, baybay (a la Tom Leykus), then folks: talk about hard-charging women you've worked with that (1) have an edge, (2) might have penis envy, and (3) want to put you in your place, given that you are a man.

Pantho, you have a corporate job now? I remember you posting something about heading off in a new direction...what's up?

tart

expensive

ears (as in "fallen on deaf ears")

I don't want to keep the thread going as a 2 person dialogue. However, you are so EFFIN' right. Whenever I am at work or at school, it's all about THE WORK and I prefer to work for men, given the choice, for this very reason. For most men, it's all business whereas women inject too many other variables in the equation (I've been "around the block" and I've seen it). They will unempower a male either by: (1) being the feminist bitch we've talked about earlier, or (2) mothering you. If you upset the balance in option (2), they will turn because that is the way the retain "power" and you've chosen to undo it. Never let it get there. When I get a woman subordinate or co-worker, I keep it ALL BUSINESS. I can handle women subordinates (and they've never complained about me yet), but I can't stand having a woman boss, though it's never happened since I've been in architecture, but it has happened in the business / corporate setting.

Why? one is the scientific term for the street term My response to thread: mute (the state of being, certainly not our anthony with lower case letters)

I was just at a dealership last weekend during the Thanksgiving holiday somewhere north of Seattle and south of the Canadian border. I explained I was in transit and was just looking. They were very nice and I helped myself to popcorn. The salesmen said new grilles are coming for the LaX for sure. They made no mention of portholes. There was a Lucerne and a LaX parked next to each other in a line-up at the curb. Gawd, we commented that the Lucerne has a FAR nicer grille. The salesman quipped that the front grille of the LaCrosse looks like that of a Ford Contour (what a slam!).

Totally understandable. How's your kid doing, BTW?

Have you ever lived in Richmond Hill? I have a childhood acquaintance who I met while my family was vacationing in Italy and then corresponded with for about a year who grew up in a second-tier Ontario city but now lives there. Is it nice? What are the demographics? I was just in "Van" over the American Thanksgiving holiday. I used to think it was paradise on earth and, from Seattle and Portland, was looking at what I could do to live/immigrate there. I am now pretty indifferent to it and find it kind of smug (the British influence, I presume). I also had the most pungent and inquisitive border-crossing into Canada EVER. If I had to live in Canada, it would be Montreal hands-down (the Quebecois have a helluva lot more of that quasi-obnoxious spirit I like, which is remarkable considering they have the $h!ty weather that makes people in places such as the Scandinavian and Baltic countries tend toward the morose).

I H-A-T-E you! :AH-HA_wink:

Yes and no. I don't notice too many "dykes" in architecture. I do notice quite a few unattractive women. Seriously, thinking about the enrolled women in architecture at U. of Ill., I was hard pressed to find more than 3 or 4 pretty ones (that didn't drop out by the 3rd year) in an enrollment of over 600. That's bad. And even the ones that are hetero but frump, well, what normal guy would want to date them anyway? Argggh. I do let my work speak for me. I'll run circles around any one of these man-hating women in our profession (at my experience level) easily. Not to brag, but I was told this business park with 6 buidings I did is one of the nicest to come out of the firm over the last 5 or so years (it's a tilt-up, actually). And the troublemaker I refer to, she is a wet-behind-the-ears intern with a UNLV sheepskin and is not at all talented.

What nationality is your girlfriend? (And, no, you don't look like a child molester. You should see my last D.L. pic, I look like a criminal, but that's because I had just gone through a 1/2 year family squabble right before I took it).

sphincter

petrified (somewhere in NM, I believe)

Hi, reg, say something! You always do.

Gump

Thanks, sci. Along with a few others who read my intent with some accuracy, I appreciate your words. I was merely telling stories and life events that I have found to be somewhat mind-numbing and a little inexplicable.And there's some truth about your comments where unilateral dishing out could occur yet men could never lash back because of the "sexual harassment" card. Well, guess what? The one gal at my workplace (reputed to be a lesbian and not at all agreeable) who is very combative with most people got verbally out of line with me at a training session in our conference room. Others heard the content of the exchange. I immediately marched to personnel and initiated a sexual harassment complaint against her. People who heard the exchange were interviewed and corroborated my story to a tee. (I had other negative one-way e-mails she sent to me that I had saved in a folder on my computer that I stapled onto the complaint). She has been disciplined for this and is "on-warning." I am only sorry she hasn't been fired. Thanks, guys, for understanding that I am relaying some experiences much the way someone would on a radio call-in show or something like that. After all, The Lounge is a medium much like that.