Ever Pick Up On A Girl Behind...

[Guest Josh]

your buddies back? Not saying that I have or ever will, but lets face it....that does happen.

So, has any guy ever picked up on his best friends chick or vice versa? And what was the outcome of your friendship if he knows, or if he doesn't?

I watched "Dukes of Hazzard" tonight and that prompted this. Go Knoxville!

[ocnblu]

I haven't. That's just wrong!

[Shantanu]

I haven't.  That's just wrong!

But you don't pick up girls period.

[Flybrian]

But you don't pick up girls period.

I wouldn't want to pick up a girl on her period either. Yeesh.

[z28luvr01]

If I knew a girl was attached, I don't think I'd even begin the "picking up" process. I'm respectful of other people's relationships. Besides, any girl who would leave another man for me, has it in her to leave me for another man.

[Croc]

If I knew a girl was attached, I don't think I'd even begin the "picking up" process. I'm respectful of other people's relationships. Besides, any girl who would leave another man for me, has it in her to leave me for another man.

Well said.

[C.H.U.D.]

If a girl wants me to lay off for that reason, she'll tell me.

And if it's my good friend who is the dude, then of course not.

[trinacriabob]

If I knew a girl was attached, I don't think I'd even begin the "picking up" process. I'm respectful of other people's relationships. Besides, any girl who would leave another man for me, has it in her to leave me for another man.

I had a friend in college who said "All is fair in love and war." My "friend" was a jerk -- he was the dweeb who busted his ass to get into the "bad boy" fraternity.

I disagree. It is NOT the right thing to do. The kind of people (men and women) who engage in that kind of stuff generally aren't good relationship material.

[regfootball]

I wouldn't want to pick up a girl on her period either. Yeesh.

that sounds like something i would say....LOL

[regfootball]

let the woman decide. don't be aggressive about stealing her, but if you think she has some interest, its ok to maintian enough flirting to see what might happen later. But you must be SERIOUS about this other person. If the dude is a really good friend, just decide what's worth more and weigh it vs. what you think their chances are of sticking 'together forever and ever, and never to part', as RICK ASTLEY would say.

don't let something that seems tenuous hinder you from taking a chance on what could be once in a lifeitme.

Edited April 17, 2006 by regfootball

[trinacriabob]

'together forever and ever, and never to part', as RICK ASTLEY would say.

You scare me...you know pop song lyrics too well.

[balthazar]

My best friend lifted my girl when I went away to college in Detroit. Quickly turned out; he did me a huge favor (she was really messed up), tho at the time I was understandably pissed. The friendship was too strong to suffer for it and everything was fine shortly after.

[Black and Blue Landscaper]

i have had both ways, i stole one from a buddy, and he back, so we are square

neither of use really meant to at the time, but it just kinda happened

[Guest Josh]

i have had both ways, i stole one from a buddy, and he back, so we are square

neither of use really meant to at the time, but it just kinda happened

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

You and I my friend, live the exact same life style.

However, how cool would it be to hold the trump card, if only for one "hand" aka "girl"....damn I'm such an asshole!

[regfootball]

My best friend lifted my girl when I went away to college in Detroit. Quickly turned out; he did me a huge favor (she was really messed up), tho at the time I was understandably pissed. The friendship was too strong to suffer for it and everything was fine shortly after.

and then you were able to share several beers as men, talking both about 'what she likes'

Edited April 18, 2006 by regfootball

[regfootball]

i have had both ways, i stole one from a buddy, and he back, so we are square

neither of use really meant to at the time, but it just kinda happened

why didn't you just compromise and 'share her'?

and then have a few beers later and

talk about 'what she liked'

Edited April 18, 2006 by regfootball

[ocnblu]

You know you're one step away from being gay when you want a threesome with your best friend and some chick... :AH-HA_wink:

[trinacriabob]

You know you're one step away from being gay when you want a threesome with your best friend and some chick... :AH-HA_wink:

So, Ocn, have YOU ever had a bisexual threesome...since you bring it up? Please report back.

[ocnblu]

I personally prefer one-on-one, but hey, I think people should be able to do what they want in the privacy of their own homes with other consenting adults.

[Sixty8panther]

Balthazar:

Is that a mummy in your Avatar or a starving Marvin?

Back in 2000 I met a wonderful chick. She was cute, funny, outgoing

and she was a die hard Bruins fan. I was coming back from a late

afternoon class at Suffolk University and struck up a conversation w/

her when we met on the train since she had a Bruins hat & Jersey on.

We hit it off pretty well and when we got to Haverhill it was pouring

cats & dogs. So I asked her if she needed a ride home since she was

planning on walking the 1.5 miles or so. She said yes and when IO

dropped her off she gave me her number without me having to even

twist her arm. At the time I was hanging out with my buddy Alex like

every damn day. He was bored with his marrige and miserable so I

was always coerced into coming over and chillin in his apartment.

Two months later, after Alex (my best friend at the time BTW) telling

me to take it easy and not rush into a relationship wiht her I found out

he had hooked up with her when she satarted blowing me off at the

EXACT same time as her. I stayed friends with both of them and got

more and more depressed as I became the constant fith wheel to their

relationship. Alex was not a gentleman about it either.

Two years later a combination of my relationship wiht Marcia being on

the rocks and Alex having moved down to Virginia without the girl in

question (Julie) I made a mistake and hooked up wiht her and cheated

on Marcia. Only later did I realise I did it more out of revenge than any

good reason. I still had feelings for Julie but it was obviously not going

anywhere with her. For a while the sex was good and then it all blew up

in my face. Even though Alex did nto even consider them to be togeater

he feels that I betrayed him.

Well, needless to say he's out of my life and I only email Julie once in a

while so as not to piss off Marcia or give her any reason to suspect any

wrong doing which will never happen again.

So yeah... I've been there done that. THe one good thing that came out

of it was that I realised what a jerk Alex is and no longer consider him

a true friend.

Edited April 19, 2006 by Sixty8panther

[balthazar]

Balthazar: Is that a mummy in your Avatar or a starving Marvin?

What's a starving marvin?

Pic is not a mummy but it is a dead guy.

One day we'll all be dead.

[Sixty8panther]

Balthazar: Is that a mummy in your Avatar or a starving Marvin?

What's a starving marvin?

Pic is not a mummy but it is a dead guy.

One day we'll all be dead.

It's a sick joke from South Park... this poor starving kid from

Ethiopia who the kids call "Starving Marvin" for obvious reasons.

I think you need to buy that Flower Car, you're just as twisted

as I am.

[regfootball]

You know you're one step away from being gay when you want a threesome with your best friend and some chick... :AH-HA_wink:

i guess i better enroll in 'gay school' then, and get rid of all those 'boobie' pictures then?

[regfootball]

I personally prefer one-on-one, but hey, I think people should be able to do what they want in the privacy of their own homes with other consenting adults.

"I did NOT HAVE SExual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky"

[trinacriabob]

i guess i better enroll in 'gay school' then, and get rid of all those 'boobie' pictures then?

It's just Ocn being Ocn, looking for gay nuances WHEREVER he can and no one is spared.

Just keep on being the same horny dude you appear to be, Reg, and everything will be cool.

[ocnblu]

Absolutely. I'm not out to change the world.

[regfootball]

Absolutely.  I'm not out to change the world.

sh1t. i shouldn't have sent Harry and Joshie those flowers then!

[ocnblu]

Why, is it their anniversary?

[regfootball]

Why, is it their anniversary?

nah, its just that if I'm gonna go gay, i ought to be courting the two hottest guys on the planet, right?

[Guest Josh]

never................eeeeeeeeeeeevar put me in the same catagory as Harry for AAAAAAAAAANYTHING!!

[regfootball]

never................eeeeeeeeeeeevar put me in the same catagory as Harry for AAAAAAAAAANYTHING!!

hee hee, just checking to see if someone was listening in.......

[regfootball]

Why, is it their anniversary?

oh right blu, Josh never said if it was still an item or not!

Edited April 20, 2006 by regfootball